Will We paved the way The Opponent?Paved the way for our opponents. Not to sound like a smart idea, right? People who have the sophistication of thought must have known that paved the way for lawanlawan we will only cause us to lose in the competition. Even if we do that, then it must be ensured beforehand that the road that we lapangkan for our opponents were headed into an abyss of destruction. If that road leads to glory, why should dilapangkan to the opponent? The logic of thinking we should just say to scuttle every step that opponents street. We must ensure that the path to greatness like that should only be passed by us alone. Paved the way for our opponents. Rather sounds like a parable. Perhaps it was nothing more than mere metaphor. Could be yes. Can not. It literally could mean a paved road in the truest sense. In contrast, road tripped opponent in the real sense.Monday ago, I get a clear example of this. Office where I work is located in the area Semanggi. Three in one area dong, right. Every car that berpenumpang less than 3 people, may not cross the region's main line at 07.00 am â € "10.00 am, and the hours of 16:30 to 19:00 pm. To enter or exit the building (Y) during the hours like that, we have to play, and crossed in front of another building (Z) which is located in one complex. Therefore, the facility is managed in a system parkirpun sama.Senin it, not as usual. When I crossed in front of the building Z, my security guard intercepted. With surprise I asked: "What, Mas?" And hesitantly security guard said: "Excuse me sir, you are not allowed to cross this road again" From the way he talked, I know; conscience Pak security guard is fighting it alone. But, he's just performing their duties. So I can understand it. I do not want to fight, yet not only was I being treated like that. All riders who crossed in front of the building were also treated sama.Ketika Z I play, I realize, that as long as the usual route we passed, it was already installed metal poles cemented into the floor. Wuah, I think, is what now? I do not get any answers until in the afternoon, the building management Y send an official letter to all residents.The point is that today's apology is the closure of access that we use. According to the letter, the closing done managment Z building after the previous week's negotiations yielded no positive agreement. Deg! My heart was beating. There is a dispute between the management of the building, apparently. And the dispute was to close the entrance for people who need lewat.Dipagi day, still there is an alternative detour to get into the building Y. but in the morning,, there is absolutely no access, except face to face with police who keep strict track three in one. Because the only path out through the rear of the building Z absolutely can not pass through the car. As a result, building management Y must dismantle the fence to live despite sacrificing some verdant trees toppled. Then, through the steep, narrow sloping again that people can pass. If you are not skilled, the rider can slip. Moreover, big cars like trucks that suppliers who really should bear the greatest risk.That picture literally jegal road trip last opponent. Office buildings did not escape even the most expensive of such an occurrence. Although inhabited by large corporations world-class. Even some of them listed in the Fortune 500. There are several consulates neighboring countries are also there. This sort of thing that can happen. as well. Let us now see the figurative meaning. In business, competition is rarely characterized by mutual jegal among competitors. And apparently, there are still many business people who think that the best way to win the competition is to defeat their business opponents. Logic thinking like this, at first glance have a point. But, for those enlightened as Professor Chan Kim; victory can not always be achieved through bloody battles like that. In fact, the biggest victory actually lies not in the fight to defeat each other, but mutually foster each other. Through the principle of mutual tackle to beat, everyone will just have to fight despite the small cakes covered with blood. And with the blood, can be turned into a sea of ​​red. Being the red ocean.Sedangkan, with the principle of mutual paved the way to grow with one another; victory belongs to everyone. To win, we do not have to shed blood. So that everyone can be equally lucky pula.Market successfully developed, and the total business becomes increasingly large. Ocean, will not become turbid due to the fighting. The water will still look blue, as a sign of the storage of the almost limitless potential. Since everyone is willing to clear the way for his opponents, actually was swimming in a duniluas called the blue ocean. And the ship sailed the ocean blue place was called the blue ocean strategy. That which is taught by Professor Kim to us. In human relationships, we also often see people who jegal each other. Whether because of competition for prospective spouses. Or struggle for the seat of power. Or just want to get a compliment from the boss, anyone can tackle other people. Fanaticism against a person or entity, may also be other causes. Believe me, we will never run out of excuses to scuttle the opponent. But, if we must always be the case? Give way to the opponent. Why not? If everyone thinks so, then this world will never have people tripping and falling. Everyone, it will get the road according to their own right. In fact, when everyone mutually invited his opponents to cross the street; feud turned into a brotherhood that generate prosperity bersama.Ada that says: if we breasted the field, others acted fraudulently! It may be so. However, if the field that we achieve the glory of your chest, until God is pleased like the way that kitatempuh; why we should be afraid of cheating people? Because, it is said God never said that actually the people who cheat, do not cheat anyone but himself.We do not want to cheat yourself, do not you? Hooray, a New Day!